Happy Father’s Day

IMG_8280Roughly 29 years ago, this guy on the right began his life as a dad. There’s never a day, not a moment, that I don’t appreciate and marvel at how true you are to all of us. To your very core you seek what is right and good (sometimes to our dismay). Over all of these years watching you with Adam, then each of the girls, Anne-Marie, Sara Beth, and Keegan I’ve loved you all the more for the role-model you are to them. But…over the last five years specifically, once this big guy on the left became a dad, I have an entirely new level of love, thankfulness, and understanding of who you have been as a dad to our children. Because of your devotion, love, counsel, life-lessons, commitment to truth, and whatever other attributes make you, you…Adam is a wonderful dad to our precious grands. I watch Adam openly loving and being totally committed to his family…just.like.his.dad.

You two men make my heart almost burst. One day a year isn’t adequate time to truly express how much you are cherished. You’re both a testament to what love can do.

Happy Father’s Day to the two most important men in our lives.



Social Media, a timely tool.


Ahhh, the seasons of life are truly like sitting on a serene and peaceful beach with a tornado spinning behind you, a beautiful sunset to the west, and a hurricane coming ashore. Why must it be so complicated to simply live peacefully with one another? My mind has been spinning over the last couple of weeks trying to make sense of so much hurt, tragedy, anger, and yet also see the beautiful innocence in a child’s eyes as we prepare for the holidays. Today, this minute, my prayer is to find the good in each person and situation I cross paths with on my journey. Seeking what is righteous and good, for the right purposes, is my personal challenge. I need help with this and have prayed for guidance. As always, God’s timing is perfect and comes in all shapes and forms…even social media.

Scrolling through Instagram and Twitter today, I see where Christine Caine (www.christinecaine.com) has posted a “spot-on” entry I’m sure was specifically for me. ūüėČ

“It was their own murmuring, grumbling, complaining, fear, doubt & negativity that kept the children of Israel out of the Promised Land. Their enemies couldn’t stop them. The devil couldn’t stop them. They stopped themselves. ¬†Guard YOUR heart. Guard YOUR mouth. Guard YOUR eyes.¬†

In order to step into the promises of God for your life, you will have to take personal responsibility for your life. Constantly. You cannot change the past, but your history does not have to define your legacy. I’m living proof of that. Make what Jesus did for you, bigger than what “they” did to you, said about you, said to you, didn’t say to you, didn’t do for you.¬†If you want to possess the promises of God for your life, then choose to: ¬†Let go of offenses.¬†Forgive people completely.¬†Guard your heart/eyes/ears/mouth.¬†Don’t let a toxic heart destroy you.¬†Let God be your vindicator.¬†Adjust some expectations of people.¬†Take your disappointments to God.¬†Grieve losses thoroughly.¬†Accept the end of a season/relationship/partnership/dream.¬†Move on but don’t harden your heart.¬†Stay open to new possibilities.¬†Step into new opportunities.¬†Anticipate new experiences.¬†Welcome new adventures.¬†Trust God wholeheartedly.

Make sure you: Don’t get stuck.¬†Don’t get bitter.¬†Don’t get angry.¬†Don’t get isolated.¬†Don’t get offended.¬†Don’t get fearful.¬†Don’t get anxious.¬†Don’t get proud.¬†Don’t get vengeful.¬†Don’t get arrogant.¬†Don’t get rude.

You will only hurt your own future and cause many others unnecessary pain. ‘Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. Now I call on heaven and earth to witness the choice you make. Oh, that you would choose life, so that you and your descendants might live. (Deuteronomy 30:19)'”

One Body, One People

Tragedy. Senseless tragedy…

Waking from a lovely deep sleep this morning to the news of over 50 people killed and hundreds injured in a senseless mass shooting in Las Vegas didn’t register as reality for mere moments. A somberness descended in the very room where moments before I was happily dreaming. I was reminded how dark our broken world can be. Details have filtered in all day and sadness covers our country once again. The “why” and “how” will most likely remain unanswered forever. In days and times such as this, it seems we, as one body, one people, search for a light. We look for a light of hope, a light of goodness, a sparkle of love in the midst of tragedy. The normal drudgery of ridiculous news, political junk, and half-truths simply don’t have center stage today. God’s people suddenly remember what it means to love one another, without exception, as our Father has loved us. Why does it take catastrophic events for us to realize the same people we extend a hand to in the midst of the darkest hours are the same people we stand shoulder to shoulder with each day. What if…what if…WHAT IF we saw each other as brothers and sisters everyday?



Down by the Pond

We have three little friends that live down by the pond. They haven’t been in the neighborhood very long and are quite the trio. I’ve yet to see one without the other two. They seem to have settled in quite nicely over the last few months. They aren’t from this area and are transplants to the pond life. Funny, but even after only having these neighbors for a short time, I look for them everyday. Their names are Sunny, Pete, and Sully. They are as different as can be and yet are the best of friends and are quite the superstars around here.

We have lots of unwanted neighbors in the woods and around the pond. I’m often concerned the unsavory types will get after our friends. Between predators and the weather, we worry. It was especially concerning this past week when the tropical storm came through as remnants of Hurricane Irma barreled through the state. As the rains and winds picked up, I couldn’t help but think of our friends down by the pond. We were lucky to have no damage to our home but how did the pond guys fare? Did they hunker down under a bush? Do they float around on the pond staying clear of falling trees? How do they keep from being separated; they aren’t very big and the wind was gusting. I guess the good Lord has all of this figured out…nature is His thing, after all.

Once the weather calmed down and the trees stopped bending in half, it was safe to venture out. Thankfully, our little friends were shaking off the nastiness of ol’ Irma and happily paddling around looking for breakfast. We surely do like our little friends. We’re glad they moved in.


A Post – Lost

Ugh! After working on my “writing” commitment for about an hour, the entire post disappeared when I tried to add a picture! Good grief!

Being out of practice effects more than putting words on to a page. Remembering how to use this blog world is also a challenge. Goodness, I don’t know if I have the thoughts or energy to redo the post.



Thoughts for pondering…

I have the best intentions and thoughts for blog posts at the most inopportune times, driving down the road, grocery shopping, during boring meetings, etc. I need a plan for how to catalog those ideas when I can’t write or type. Hmmm…something else to ponder…

Things that make me think:

-What exactly are my bucket-list items? Must I have a bucket-list? I have places I’d like to visit and things I’d like to do but nothing monumental enough to qualify as a bucket-list, at least not in comparison to other lists I’ve heard mentioned.

-My views and beliefs on life choices today versus previous years and why my thoughts have changed or remained the same. (This post might not be so fun to write or think about…may not tackle this anytime soon.)

-Grocery shopping and how badly I would like a change in this inefficient process.

-Family members may no longer be here with us but God sends angels to cross our paths and fill our needs in love.

-Friendship circles and/vs. needs at seasons in our lives.

-Acceptance and forgiveness

-I need fresh air and sunshine – why?

-Helping/Serving others – Expected? Need? Want? Responsibility?

-I really don’t like house-cleaning but I really like to cook.

-Mid-life and a need to exercise. Ugh!

-When you realize your husband really is your best friend. ūüėČ

-Life after work.

-I wish I could decorate my house but mostly I just want it to be clean and organized.

-Devotions/Bible readings and study – how the Lord is speaking to me at any given time.

Hoping to spend some time each day in thought about boring daily life as well as musing and wonderings as they occur to me. I look back over the past years of posts and relish the memories.



Blink – and she turns 17!

It was 6,210 days ago. That‚Äôs 4,436 weekdays and 1,774 weekend days‚Ķor 887 weeks and one day ago. ‚ÄúHarry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban‚ÄĚ by J.K. Rowling was a best-selling book. Bill Clinton was the US President and Don Siegelman was Alabama‚Äôs governor.

Gas prices in Alabama were at a high of $1.19 per gallon and the famous Blackberry was first introduced.

For us, it was a little more special and personal. For our family, it was a beautiful new day. Monday morning around 9am at Russell Medical Center a precious miracle came into this world.¬† Joining a family of four, she was to be called ‚ÄúMorgan‚ÄĚ and was greatly anticipated by a brother and sister. Just before she made her entrance, her identity changed to Sara Elizabeth and she‚Äôs been a perfect Sara Beth, Bess, Bessie, Lulu ever since.

Sweet Bess, your heart for others and desire to serve the Lord has changed our lives and will forever impact this world. Your laughter and loving personality creates a spirit of joy in our family. I pray you always and forever seek God, find the good in humanity, love others, and challenge those around you to do the same. Happy 17th Birthday sweet girl! You are loved more than you could possibly understand.

Why We Do What We Do

Why We Do What We Do…

We are rolling into Kentucky this morning, watching LiveStream, and listening to our Pastor preach his first sermon. So perfectly penned for us as we ask ourselves, especially today, ‚Äúwhy DO we DO what we DO?‚ÄĚ Why am I here, really? Why do teams of people ever agree to mission, whether it at home, in another state, another country? What exactly are we trying to do? What call are we answering?

I personally and truly believe we are called and anointed to spread the love that Jesus shares with each of us. We prepare our hearts daily for any moment presented to us by our Lord to share the good news we have through and because of him. Specifically this week, 39 servants are looking for ways to reach out and share the glory and good we’ve found in our Savior. We feel it. We know it. We want others to know it…it’s WHY we do what we do!

Find a way today to answer the call Jesus has placed on your life. He’s called; are you listening?


Bowling and Bonding

An Outback dinner and night of bowling binds us together just a little tighter. After waiting a minute or two, 38 of us found ourselves breaking bread with old friends and some brand new ones. Funny how laughter over a blooming onion can break the ice for new friendships.

FINALLY, FINALLY – after dinner we gather around to hear our teams for the week. For previous ASP teams, you know how exciting this is. Some may worry over this but every single year, God has empowered Jimmy and Barbara to put together just the right people to work together to spread God’s love. Maybe there was a year or two that I fretted a little but quickly have learned, it’s always exactly as it should be. Jimmy and Barbara no doubt spend time praying over these teams and listening for God’s word. You simply can’t go wrong when allowing our good Lord to lead.

Ok – so, about the time we arrived at our little Red Roof yesterday, I received a text from long-time ASP team favorite family. Our beloved Fox family, for the first time, in many, many years isn’t here with us. My sweet, Margot, set my mind spinning back over the last seven years and all of the fun and love that’s been shared with so many giving hearts. So, to you:

Jim Bain – I’ll be wary and extra careful if I have to get under a house, looking for creatures that growl and those that fly. Moreso, I’ll be double-checking a leader that leads me to a place with growling and flying creatures…and then LAUGHS uncontrollably as I try to escape!

Greg, Margot, Abby, and Maggie – it’s terribly strange without at least one Fox here. Greg, in my seven years here, I think we shared a team for four years. You were on my first team and I’ll never, ever, in my life forget what God taught me in that week. Abby and Maggie…it’s terribly odd to think one of you won’t be crawling into your mom’s bunk at the center. Both of you over the last seven years, at some point during the week, always come visit us, as your mom is generally my next door bunk mate. Love to each of you Fox’s! I miss you already!

To bunk buddies that don’t know when to go to bed: Margot Fox, Laurie Sturdivant, Alice Parmer, Debbie Bain, Wendy Pritchard…I still don’t know where some of those emojis came from. I’ll have to share a late night text with Barbara, Catie, Penny, and Heather and hope they find as much enjoyment.

My¬†special “distubavant” boys, Sam & Scott, and Matthew…your absence is already obvious. You’ve set a standard and created memories the younger kids are already re-telling and hoping to live into.

And to Mickey Sewell, Greg Blackmon, Robin Newberry, Ryley Scales, and so many, many more – your contribution to the memory bank lives on. I can’t listen to Wagon Wheel or Dirt Road without thinking about two silly high school girls living life to the fullest. Mickey, you’ve been a great leader and will be missed. Mr. Greg Blackmon, as my first group leader on ASP and in many other areas of my life, I miss you and your wise words.

Finally, our fearless leader Jimmy isn’t with us this year. I think we’re about 22 hours into this experience and you are missed and yet what you’ve created with Barbara is alive and strong. We’re committed to continuing what you’ve taught us. As we sang “Sanctuary” last night, I could hear your voice. We never know when our last trip will be but I don’t think I can end my tenure until you’re back on this mission with us!

Love to all! Time to head to the Waffle House!